#
166
The Italian shopkeeper doing what most LOs won't
Amir Syed
|
August 29, 2026

There's a small leather shop in Florence I walked past every day for three days.
Family-owned, maybe 400 square feet.
The owner, Marco, would be outside almost every morning, sweeping the front of his store, waving at neighbors, chatting with tourists, greeting the older folks passing by.
He never once tried to pull me in, shoved a card in my face, or even asked if I wanted to see his "amazing selection."
Meanwhile, three doors down, another leather shop had a guy standing outside desperately calling out to every tourist walking by.
"My friend! Please. Come look! Handmade!"
Guess which one I bought from.
Marco's shop. Twice. Ended up spending almost €500 there.
The other guy? Never even walked in.
Watching this play out everyday reminded me of exactly what I coach LOs on every single day.
Marco wasn't selling, he was becoming familiar.
By the time I walked in, we already knew each other.
He'd waved at my daughter.
He'd give a warm smile.
He didn't need to close me because he'd already earned the right to be considered.
The desperate guy three doors down was doing what most LOs do:
Being really desperate and pesky.
They think prospecting means pitching harder, selling means talking more, and winning business means being louder than the competition.
But the ones actually crushing it right now are the Marcos.
The ones who show up consistently, wave at kids, remember your name, make you feel like you're already part of something before you've even given them a dollar.
They're not trying to close you.
They're trying to become the obvious choice when you're finally ready.
Huuuuge difference.
Marco sold me €500 worth of leather because he never once tried to sell me anything.
Your next big client is walking by your shop every day.
Your shop is your social media.
Are you educating your audience of referral partners, homebuyers, and homeowners everyday?
Ciao,
Amir
Whenever you’re ready, here’s how I can help you!
- Book a call to speak with one of our advisors about joining the Growth Only Community.
- Join our Facebook group for Top Producing Modern Loan Officers.
- Connect with me on social.

